Spiritual Tune Up: No Cussing – Speak Life Into Situations

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James 3:9-10 (KJV)  “Therewith bless we God, even the Father; and therewith curse we men, which are made after the similitude of God. Out of the same mouth proceeded blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be.”

Colossians 3:8 KJV  “But now ye also put off all these; anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy communication out of your mouth.”

“Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers” (Ephesians 4:29, KJV).

 

 

Your words hold power – more than you may realize. The Bible teaches us that what we say can bring life or death, blessings or curses. As Christians, we are called to speak in ways that honor God and build others up, not tear them down. In today’s world, where inappropriate language and cursing are common, it’s time for a spiritual tune-up. Are you speaking life into your situations, or are careless words holding you back?  

 

The Power of Your Words

“Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof” (Proverbs 18:21, KJV).

Every word you speak has weight. When you use negative or inappropriate language, it plants seeds of doubt, anger, and destruction. On the other hand, words of faith, love, and encouragement bring healing and hope. Cursing is not just about foul language – it’s about words that speak defeat, gossip, and harm.  

What Jesus Says About Speech

Jesus reminds us:
“For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh” (Matthew 12:34, KJV).

The words we use reflect what is in our hearts. If your heart is filled with anger, bitterness, or fear, your speech will follow. To stop cursing and start speaking life, begin by letting God renew your heart and mind through prayer and His Word.  

Taming the Tongue – Lessons from James

The book of James gives a strong warning about the power of the tongue:
“The tongue is a little member, and boasted great things… it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison” (James 3:5-10, KJV).

Though small, the tongue can cause great harm if left unchecked. Think of it like a spark that starts a wildfire. Gossip, anger, and foul speech spread negativity. But with discipline and the Holy Spirit’s help, you can use your words to bring light, peace, and encouragement.

1. James 1:26 (KJV)

“If any man among you seem to be religious, and bridled not his tongue, but deceived his own heart, this man’s religion is vain.”

Explanation:
James reminds us that our faith is revealed through our actions, including how we speak. If we claim to follow Christ but cannot control our words, our testimony is damaged, and our faith appears empty. A “bridled tongue” means controlling what we say, choosing words that reflect the love, patience, and purity of Christ. If we let foul, hurtful, or careless words slip out, we deceive ourselves and others about our walk with God.

This verse challenges believers to examine if their speech aligns with their faith. Are your words leading others to Christ or turning them away?  

2. James 3:9-10 (KJV)

“Therewith bless we God, even the Father; and therewith curse we men, which are made after the similitude of God. Out of the same mouth proceeded blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be.”

 

Explanation:
James highlights the contradiction of praising God while speaking harshly or negatively about others. Every person is created in God’s image, and when we curse, insult, or belittle someone, it dishonors their Creator. Blessing God in worship and then cursing others reveals inconsistency and a lack of spiritual maturity.

James declares, “These things ought not so to be,” urging Christians to choose words that reflect God’s character. If we bless with our mouths, let us also speak life to others. Consistent, God-honoring speech proves our hearts are transformed.  

Reflection

How often do your words bless God but criticize others? Pray for God to align your heart and tongue, ensuring both reflect His love and truth.  

Why Speaking Life Matters

1. Words Impact Your Life – What you speak affects your mindset. Speak hope and faith, not defeat.
2. Words Impact Others – Your words can lift someone up or tear them down. Speak blessings, not curses.
3. Words Honor God – God calls us to purity and love in our speech (Colossians 3:8, KJV).  

Colossians 3:8 KJV  “But now ye also put off all these; anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy communication out of your mouth.”

Three Action Steps to Speak Life

1. Pray Before You Speak – Ask the Holy Spirit to guide your words daily (Psalm 19:14).
2. Replace Negative Words with Scripture – When tempted to curse, declare God’s promises instead.
   • Example: “I can do all things through Christ” (Philippians 4:13).
3. Speak to Build, Not Tear Down – Make a habit of encouraging others with your words.  Say one encouraging word each day to people you communicate with.

Reflection Question

Are your words bringing life, healing, and hope, or do they reflect negativity and harm? How can you allow God to transform your speech today? 

 

Conclusion

Speaking life is a choice. A spiritual tune-up begins with examining your words and asking God to renew your heart. Remember, your tongue can either lift others up or tear them down. Choose to honor God with clean, encouraging speech and watch your situations transform through His power.

 

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CALL TO SALVATION

John 3:16  “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.

 

Romans 10:9-10  9That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. 10For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness, and with the mouth, confession is made unto salvation

 

John 3:5-6  5Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God. 6That which is born of the flesh is flesh, and that which is born of the Spirit is the Spirit.