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Loving others doesn’t mean losing yourself.
Scripture: Matthew 10:16 KJV – “Behold, I send you forth as sheep in the midst of wolves: be ye therefore wise as serpents, and harmless as doves.”

The Pain Point: 
You keep giving. Forgiving. Helping. But the more you love, the more drained you feel. People cross the line, use your kindness, or treat you like a doormat. And now you’re asking, “Is this what love is supposed to feel like?”

It hurts to love without limits. But the good news is—you’re allowed to set boundaries.

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The Solution: Love With Wisdom, Not Just Emotion
Jesus loved deeply. But He also withdrew from crowds, walked away from people who didn’t believe, and protected His mission. Matthew 10:16 reminds us to be wise and gentle. That’s balance. That’s spiritual maturity.

Setting boundaries isn’t a lack of love—it’s wise love. Love says, “I’ll help you, but I won’t let you harm me.” Boundaries protect the fruit of the Spirit in your life.

You can say no and still walk in love. Jesus did.

Takeaway: Love Isn’t Weak—It’s Wise
Loving like Jesus doesn’t mean breaking yourself to fix others.
Boundaries don’t block love—they protect it.

Reflection Question:
Where in your life is God prompting you to love with more wisdom and boundaries?

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Romans 10:17 KJV  “So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.” 

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A CALL TO SALVATION:

John 3:16 “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.”

Romans 10:9-10  ⁹That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. ¹⁰For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness, and with the mouth, confession is made unto salvation.

  John 3:5-6  ⁵Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God. ⁶That which is born of the flesh is flesh, and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit. ⁷    

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